Something very interesting happened when we moved to our own apartment. It took a week to get our new washer and dryer installed, so during that time I used toilet paper full time again. The interesting part is that I missed my cloth. The paper was shredding and I had to worry about if there were little bits of paper stuck to my hoohoo and the whole thing just felt very awkward.
I'm not why/how this happened, or how it's even possible, but now after two months of weekly washings my cloth wipes seem... dryer? Definitely more absorbent. This wasn't freshly purchased cloth that needed a few washings to prep and be fully absorbent. These were old t-shirts that were in fairly regular rotation for 2 or 3 years.
It has occurred to me that it may possibly also be the laundry detergent switch. Without all the random stuff commercial detergent has in it, not using 'real' fabric softener, and discontinuing my use of dryer sheets maybe the fabric has finally been stripped of all the detergent and chemical build up of being in regular rotation for several years?
Anyway, I just wanted to say that it took two months but I think I'm finally 100% converted. I prefer my cloth over toilet paper. Not to mention how miraculous it is to finally be in our own apartment where I can set my cloth out in a cute little basket somewhere it's easy for me to grab and toss it in a special pail next to the toilet after I use it!